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Feb 2025
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Scott and Virginia Trench Talk Goal Sett...

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About this episode

How has Scott achieved so much financial success already in his early 30s? He’s got a secret weapon nobody else has: Virginia Trench! That’s right, the woman behind half of the puns you hear on this podcast is coming on the show! She's sharing her view on Scott’s early (and extreme) frugality, massively successful financial planning dates, goal setting as a couple, prenuptial agreements, and the Trenches’ recent decision to sell a solid chunk of their index fund portfolio

Virginia met Scott before he was CEO, before he had a sizable rental portfolio, and before he became one of the internet’s favorite money nerds. Together, they’ve worked hand-in-hand, building a FI lifestyle that fits their family while chasing their own individual dreams, including Virginia becoming a published author with her new book, Our Secrets Were Safe, coming out this summer!

In this episode, we peel back the curtain and get a glimpse into how Scott and Virginia run the Trench household and its finances. What’s the one thing they have trouble not spending on? What is their repeatable process for achieving enormous financial goals? And is Scott secretly the world’s worst/best baker? If you’re a long-time listener, this is an episode you can’t miss!


In This Episode We Cover

The repeatable money date that Scott and Virginia use to keep their family finances in shape

Goal setting as a couple and how to reach seemingly impossible milestones 

Prenuptial agreements and why Scott and Virginia would recommend one for couples

What Virginia thinks about Scott’s recent decision to sell off their index funds 

The one spending problem that Scott and Virginia both admit they struggle with 

And So Much More!


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(00:00) Intro

(01:47) Super Frugality and FIRE Goals

(04:57) Spending and Blind Spots

(08:42) Getting a Prenup

(12:08) Financial Planning Dates

(17:08) Goal Setting 101

(24:57) Scott Goes Coconuts

(321:05) Selling Index Funds

(35:49) Grab Virginia’s Book!


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