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Feb 2025
56m 48s

Cock Rings, Getting Arrested, and Mother...

Shaun Galanos and John Kim
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Today, Shaun and John talk about their recent Valentine’s Day retreat, past addictive behaviors, Shaun’s new sex toy, and the benefits of using cock rings in the bedroom. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: how can you help your partner without feeling like you’re mothering them?


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