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Feb 2025
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275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibi...

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When we first meet someone, the thing we instantly look for is a 'spark' - do a connect, are we attracted to each other, do we feel passion and fire and connection. What we often forget to look for is compatibility - does this person see me? Compatibility is the long term make or break of a relationship, regardless of how much intensity is there in the beginning. In today's episode, we break down the 5 biggest signs of emotional compatibility, including: 

  • Why we should be searching for stillness over excitement
  • What effortless communication should feel like 
  • Do you need to have the same political views as your partner? 
  • The 4 emotional languages 
  • The secret power of laughter + so much more 

Finally, I share a brief compatibility checklist so you can judge a new relationship or connection for yourself. Listen now! 

Youngest children have a reputation for being rebellious, rule breakers, sociable, charming, a bit spoiled and maybe even attention seekers. Is all of that true? And why is that the case? In today's episode, let's tackle the last sibling in our birth order series by deep diving in the psychology of birth order theory, alongside: 

  • The biggest stereotypes about youngest children
  • Why youngest children are treated and raised differently 
  • What makes youngest children so successful in business? 
  • Can we predict who youngest children will marry? 
  • What struggles youngest children encounter in their families + much more! 

Listen now, youngest and all other siblings alike to learn more. 

 

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