Amber Whittington joins Mal to discuss the age-old question - when, if ever, and under what circumstances, is it okay to date your friend's ex? How do you navigate that conversation? Can you still be friends after that happens? Let us know your thoughts in the comments!
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Jan 27
Debunking Myths About Trans Athletes With Ellie Roscher
Trans athletes are often treated as a political issue. For Ellie Roscher, they’re her students, her community, and the reason she’s rethinking what fairness really means. Ellie, author of Fair Game, joins the pod to discuss listening to your body and yourself. She reflects on tea ... Show More
52m 33s
Jan 20
Intro To Human Design With Keolani Young
This week, Mal sits down with Human Design expert, Keolani Young, who breaks down what Human Design actually is, and why it can be such a powerful tool during times of transition.Keolani walks us through the different Human Design types, how they’re meant to move through the worl ... Show More
53m 42s
Jan 13
From Survival To Self with Laya Mosto
This week, Mal sits down with Laya Mosto, a Syrian refugee who witnessed the war firsthand and rebuilt her life in America. Laya opens up about living in survival mode, being denied access to therapy in Syria, and how everything going on delayed her sexuality. She also shares her ... Show More
42m 46s
Sep 2025
My Boyfriend Doesn’t Like My Friends! Now What?!
Happy Monday! This week, we’re diving into what to do when your boyfriend just doesn’t like your friends. Is he being protective, picky, or just toxic? We’re breaking down when his opinion might be valid and when it’s giving red flags. We're talking boundaries, girl code, and how ... Show More
1h 5m
Oct 2024
Would You Date a Friend's Ex?
<p>We're discussing the controversial topic of dating a friend's ex (or someone they dated casually or even just slept with). We're breaking down all the different scenarios, what counts as "girl code," a recent situation between us, our listeners' thoughts, and how to talk to a ... Show More
1h 27m
Jun 2025
Terms & Conditions May Apply: What We All Need to Know About Modern Dating
Dating often comes with a lot of questions. Who gets to say what they want? Who gets to be chosen? Who gets to choose? Should I stay on/off the apps? How much do I share, when, and how? This week, Esther gets set up on a blind date of sorts with three people, all deeply invested ... Show More
49m 13s
Jul 2025
Can Our College Friendship Survive Adulthood?
Friendship is a key thread of the social fabric. But what happens when the thread starts to fray? They met in college and have been close for a decade. Now, with long-term partners in the mix, their once-easy bond is under strain. Resentments—some spoken, many not—have started to ... Show More
1h 1m
Sep 2025
Why I Broke Up With a Good Person
Breaking up is never easy—especially when the person you’re leaving isn’t toxic, cruel, or a bad partner, but simply not the right match. In this episode, Jillian shares her personal story of ending a relationship with a “good person” and the powerful lessons she learned about va ... Show More
30m 48s