About this episode
Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting.
Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling.
Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of connection. Mistress Erika brings up how the long distance relationship actually reduces inhibitions and allows someone to really talk about erotic desires without fear of judgment or fear of rejection from your real life partner, wife or girlfriend.
Some roleplays are physically impossible. The ladies talk about several examples including:Giantess, shrinking, and tiny man fantasiesThe magically transformed category that includes coerced feminization: male to female transformation scenes as a sissy, bimbo / slut, or submissive woman.MILF fantasies where the caller is transported back to being a young man with an older womanBi sexual exploration or submission to a Dominant manFantasy cocksucking without any fears of safety, health or other issues.All the various versions of cuckold fantasiesPublic humiliation (that’s a no no for consent and safety reasons)Exhibitionist and/or voyeur fantasiesCum eating that is hot only before someone has cum to eat
Some of the behind the scenes conversation will give you insight into how we each bring our creativity to our erotic roleplay scenes.
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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