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Jan 2025
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Dear Chiquis: Should I Tell My Husband I...

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Hello and Welcome to Dear Chiquis! This week, Loly has recently been grieving her mom, years after her passing, and is wondering if I’ve experienced something similar; Luisa has yet to tell her husband she was sexually abused when she was a kid and needs my advice on whether she should tell him; and Chris wants to know if I have a favorite scary movie.

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