We hate absolutes, but are pretty confident in saying that every relationship has a pursuer and a withdrawer. In this two part series we are breaking down each of these roles, how to help, how to love, how to communicate. And if there are two podcasts you listen to of ours let this be them!
In this episode, we discuss:
The protective moves that withdrawers ... Show More
Today
When the Holidays Aren't So Merry
In this episode, Colter, Lauren, and Cayla open up about how the holidays can bring up grief, loneliness, or stress instead of joy. They share personal stories of loss, family expectations, and the emotional weight that often comes with “the most wonderful time of the year.” Toge ... Show More
52m 22s
Nov 19
Managing Your Boundaries with Family Over the Holidays
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The holidays can bring a mix of love, laughter, and a little chaos. In this episode, Colter, Cayla, and Lauren talk about wh ... Show More
54m 24s
Nov 14
People Pleasing and When You Get Invited To Chilli's
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Colter, Cayla, and Lauren explore the roots, costs, and recovery process of people pleasing, highlighting how it o ... Show More
46m 2s
Oct 5
218. 10 hard TRUTHS about healthy relationships that will help you GROW 🤍 lessons in secure, REAL love 🙏🏼
Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will ... Show More
45m 19s
Apr 2025
The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns
We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you' ... Show More
49m 9s
Nov 10
How to Be Yourself: Authenticity in Relationships with Elizabeth Ferreira
In this very fun episode, Forrest and Elizabeth discuss how to get on the same team in a relationship. They explore how conditions of worth, masking, and developmental trauma can get in the way of showing up authentically, and how falling into common relationship roles can reinfo ... Show More
1h 12m
Feb 2025
My Top 3 Lessons in Communication
You’re in a conversation, and things get heated. You want to make your point—but so do they.
Suddenly, it feels like a battle. And if you "win," what have you really won?
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 truths that will change how you communicate—for good.
These simple mindsets ... Show More
17m 41s