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Jan 2025
37m 16s

Dear Hashtag Ruthless: An Advice Bonus!

Hashtag Ruthless Productions
About this episode

Welcome to our first bonus advice episode of 2025! 

 

In this episode: Can I be pansexual if I’ve only ever had one partner? Is it possible to build resilient communities and friendships that last through difficult times? How do we build the future we want to live in? And, how do I figure out my gender when my relationship to my body is already complicated for other reasons? 

 

And in the Patreon version of the episode: How do I go about coming out and changing my pronouns for a second time? Is it possible to fix my relationship if my partner won’t take my disability needs seriously? How do I get over the grief and stigma when adjusting to using a mobility aid? What’s the best way to accommodate contradictory sensory needs? And, what tips do you have for starting T and getting top surgery? 

 

Don’t miss our sticker sale! Use the code I<3queerart to get 15% off

 

Join us on Patreon to access the full episode, as well as extended episodes of all of our podcasts, access to our Discord, newsletters, and our Sticker Club! 

 

Interested in supporting the podcast? There are so many ways to do so! 

 

Find the pod on Instagram @hashtagruthlesspods or at hashtagruthless.com

Find Lark on instagram @melancholymalarkey or on his website, larkmalakai.com 

Find Jessie on instagram @livefromdetroit


Intro music: Professor and the Plant by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4244-professor-and-the-plant License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/


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