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Jan 2025
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Episode 185: The Language of Behavior wi...

Darrin Peppard
About this episode

In this insightful episode of Leaning Into Leadership, Dr. Darrin Peppard sits down with Charlie Peck and Joshua Stamper to discuss their upcoming book, The Language of Behavior, and the accompanying podcast. Together, they explore strategies to decode student behaviors, build positive relationships, and implement proactive systems that empower educators and students alike. From creating the "Relationship Action Team" to implementing the push-in model, this conversation is packed with practical tools and actionable strategies for leaders at every level.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The origin story of The Language of Behavior book and podcast.
  • Why traditional disciplinary measures often fail and how to shift toward relational approaches.
  • Insights into the push-in model and its transformative impact on classrooms.
  • The power of grassroots leadership initiatives in fostering systemic change.
  • How to "lean into leadership" by staying true to your values and beliefs.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Behavior as a Message: Understand that behaviors are a form of communication and decoding them requires curiosity and compassion.
  2. Team-Based Solutions: Building a collaborative team, like the Relationship Action Team, empowers educators to implement meaningful changes.
  3. Proactive Strategies: Tools like the push-in model help address low-level infractions without removing students from the learning environment.
  4. Invest in Teachers: Equipping teachers with practical strategies and fostering a sense of community can reignite their passion for education.
  5. Authentic Leadership: Embrace your values and lead with authenticity to inspire trust and joy in your team.

Featured Quotes:

  • "Behaviors are just the message. We can learn to decode them to better support our students." – Charlie Peck
  • "When I stopped trying to meet others' expectations and leaned into who I am as a leader, everything changed for the better." – Joshua Stamper

Resources Mentioned:

  • The Language of Behavior book (coming soon)
  • The Language of Behavior podcast (available on all major platforms)
  • Previous episodes featuring Charlie Peck and Joshua Stamper

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