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Jan 2025
1h 5m

Spot Red Flags & Avoid Bad Dates In 2025

BETCHES MEDIA
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Happy New Year, U Up? listeners! J&J are ringing in the New Year doing what they do best: going a little bit off the rails. Jared plans to celebrate the New Year by toasting his martini to the moon (and hopes you will toast him back, wherever she is). They reflect about their 2024, before diving into some of Jared’s 2025 dating resolutions which include new- ... Show More
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