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Jan 2025
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413: How to Be His Lover, Not His Mother...

Monica Yates
About this episode

Redefining masculine + feminine in leadership AND love


A spicy episode covering one of your biggest questions when it comes to letting him lead — “but what if I LIKE to lead!?” Whether you’re a first-born, a Virgo (lol), or simply just a powerhouse woman who loves to be in charge and finds it’s a strength of yours… this episode is for you!! And it holds the key to upleveling your leadership AND love something fierce.


Monica’s also giving you a fresh perspective on breaking free from overwhelm and stepping into this new year with ease and intention to create space for what truly matters.


MORE INSIDE THE EPISODE:


💦 How to reduce overwhelm + over-consumption this year

💦 Creating space to learn and LIVE amid life’s chaos

💦 How to create BALANCE going into 2025

💦 What it actually means to be in your feminine vs. your masculine

💦 Why letting go of control can feel impossible at times

💦 The difference between masculine + feminine leadership

💦 Embracing the fluidity in desires + roles


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