Today, John and Brian Reeves do a deep dive into the depths of men's work. They discuss the impact of fatherhood on masculinity, the significance of rites of passage, men seeking connection, retreats, and more.
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Aug 18
From Nauseous Nights to Perfect Mornings | Life in Costa Rica
In this episode, licensed therapist John Kim takes you inside his personal journey of building a new life in Costa Rica - the highs, the lows, and the unexpected lessons about presence, clarity, and decision-making. From nausea-inducing dirt roads to perfect mornings surfing in C ... Show More
15m 12s
Aug 14
Sh*t You Wouldn’t Ask Your Therapist | The Truth About Breakups
In today’s episode, John Kim answers raw, unfiltered listener questions on the theme of breakups and divorce — the things you’d never dare ask your therapist. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE ... Show More
18m 18s
Dec 2024
Heart-Ons, Wounded Masculine & Feminine, and Playing Games
Today, Shaun and John talk about what they want for themselves in 2025, showing emotion by crying, and wounded masculine and feminine energies vs sacred masculine and feminine energies. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: should women hold back and make ... Show More
1h 2m
May 8
John's celibacy, Shaun's criticism, and a plot twist
Today, John and Shaun get real about celibacy, the unexpected wisdom of edging and what it means to hold space for change. As they dive into how we show up for friends, and navigate endings with grace (or not), they explore what it means to sit with discomfort and desire.Also on ... Show More
49m 41s
Jun 2024
Stop Interrupting Me, Height Differences in Dating, and Dealing with Infidelity
Today, John and Shaun read some feedback from listeners about their new podcast. For the Q&A, they dive into the significance of height in dating, and explore the topic of infidelity. Find out more about John HERE
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55m 34s
Jan 2025
Shared Phone Plans, Sober Dating, and Talking About Men
Today, Shaun and John talk about motorcycles, things they need to work on with their parents, feedback from their first live show, and shared phone plans. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: do mixed sobriety relationships work?
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1h 8m
Jun 30
Dr. John Oliffe - The True (And Troubling) Face Of Men's Health
Talking points: mental health, masculinity, cultureWhen Movember reaches out, you answer the call. I'm grateful to have interviewed Professor John Oliffe on a recent report co-authored by him—and spearheaded by the Movember Institute for Men's Health. Some of the stats they've re ... Show More
50m 38s
Aug 2024
Vasectomies, Sex Toys, and Should Women Ask Men Out?
Today, John and Shaun discuss how they handle criticism on social media, men getting vasectomies, using sex toys in the bedroom, and hall passes for celebrity crushes. They also answer a listener's question and give advice about whether women should wait for men to chase them ... Show More
1 h
Sep 2024
John Gray - Are Men Still From Mars, Women Still From Venus?
Talking points: relationships, testosterone, estrogen, stress
I had John on the show years ago, and it seemed like the right time to ask: has anything changed since publishing his seminal book? Turns out the answer is yes—and no. Dig in with us as we cover John’s take on conflict ... Show More
1h 2m
Jul 24
#971 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 Semi-Controversial Truths About Masculinity
Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist and an author. Are men the problem? In a time when blame is easily assigned, it’s worth asking whether men need to re-examine how they show up in the world, including their values, behavior, & accountability. In doing so, they might uncover su ... Show More
1h 25m