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Nov 2024
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How to Be a Man - A Guide to Style and B...

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Former contributor at Andy Warhol’s Interview, creative director of advertising at Barneys New York, columnist at Details magazine with "The Style Guy," which later migrated to its permanent home at GQ magazine where O’Brien shares knowledge on styling matters ranging from how to put together a wardrobe for a trip to Bermuda, or when it is appropriate to wear flip-flops in public. "How To Be a Man - A Guide to Style and Behavior for the Modern Gentleman" is the culmination of O’Brien’s thirty years of style and etiquette wisdom and in today's podcast we cover topics ranging from traditional etiquette and morality to contemporary fashion and social trends, offering witty observations and poignant advice on style, masculinity, and modern life.

A Men's Styling Podcast Made with LOVE by The VOU's Expert Image Consultants.

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