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Dec 2024
1h 22m

Consumerism, Guilty Consciences, and Cri...

Ryan Michler
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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a candid discussion about the relentless cycle of consumerism, exploring how modern holiday traditions have strayed from their meaningful roots. They share insights on battling guilt when taking personal time and the importance of setting boundaries to balance self-care and family commitments.

Tackling anxiety in relationships, they offer practical advice for fostering mutual growth and understanding. The duo also discusses the profound impact of teaching responsibility to children and how intentional goal-setting can transform personal and professional lives. 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Intro and Thanksgiving Reflections 02:10 - The Problem with Modern Consumerism 06:15 - Knowledge vs. Application 19:07 - Teaching Kids Responsibility 27:15 - Extreme Ownership: When Is It Too Much? 42:44 - Navigating Anxiety in Relationships 52:15 - Goals That Move the Needle 58:19 - Dealing with Guilt Over Self-Care 1:04:33 - Staying Patient During Chaos   1:19:26 - Closing Thoughts

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