Today, John reflects on his recent wedding in Mexico, sharing personal insights about love, relationships, and the importance of presence. He discusses the unconventional nature of his wedding, the significance of celebrating love authentically, the lessons learned from his journey, and more.
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Yesterday
10 Questions About Love
What happens when I know better but still find myself repeating the same relationship patterns? I answer 10 questions about love, attachment, obsession, loneliness, breakups, abuse, reconciliation, and the difficult choices we make when relationships activate something deeper ins ... Show More
23m 37s
Aug 19
Are you in love or attached to the fantasy?
What is the difference between loving someone and becoming obsessed with them? In this episode, I explore how love can slowly turn into fixation, fantasy, and emotional dependency, and why so many of us confuse chemistry with compatibility. Recording from a hotel room, I reflect ... Show More
37m 42s
Nov 2025
episode 5: marriage beyond your pinterest board + honest q&a
hi everyone welcome back or welcome to the as you are podcast! this episode I talk about a few things I’ve learned in the last 2 years of being married and the truths behind marriage and things to prepare for beforehand, such as communication, love languages, unlearning, healing ... Show More
39m 54s
Apr 2021
Redefining Endings: Divorce, Pivots, and Self-Trust featuring Christine Platt, Afrominimalist
In this episode, we talk about our right to tell our stories of love endings, the importance of understanding our intentions and expectations for marriage without romanticizing the idea of it, and the possibility of healthy decoupling.
39m 36s