Today, John reflects on his recent wedding in Mexico, sharing personal insights about love, relationships, and the importance of presence. He discusses the unconventional nature of his wedding, the significance of celebrating love authentically, the lessons learned from his journey, and more.
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Nightcap, Costa Rica Edition: Burning Down Old Blueprints & Redefining Happy
Today, John reflects on the rapid changes in his life, the cultural adjustments he faces, and the importance of community and authentic relationships. He discusses the shedding of old blueprints and the creation of a new life that feels more honest and fulfilling. Single On Purpo ... Show More
34m 59s
Jul 7
Morning Coffee in the Jungle: Day in the Life & New Mindset Change
Today, John discusses the significance of family, the creative process of documenting life, and the concept of life as an act break. Throughout, he emphasizes the value of intentional living and how it shapes daily routines and interactions. Single On Purpose School starts J ... Show More
41m 57s
Jul 4
How Life Transitions Impact Relationships.
Today, John and Vanessa discuss their experiences and challenges after moving to Costa Rica. They explore themes of cultural adjustment, language barriers, relationship dynamics, community connection, and the impact of motherhood on their lives. Single On Purpose School star ... Show More
33m 38s
Dec 2024
Being Childfree, Spirituality, and Disappointing Others
Today, Shaun and John talk about choosing a child-free life, fitness, spiritually, and being of service by sharing your gifts. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: where’s the line between being the best version of yourself and being lazy or selfish for p ... Show More
59m 22s
Oct 2024
Male Sexuality, Leaving Your Marriage, and Gen Z
Today, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jealou ... Show More
1h 8m
Jan 2025
Shared Phone Plans, Sober Dating, and Talking About Men
Today, Shaun and John talk about motorcycles, things they need to work on with their parents, feedback from their first live show, and shared phone plans. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: do mixed sobriety relationships work?
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1h 8m
Jul 2024
Sami and Andrew's Love Story Pt. 2: Supporting Each Other Through It All
Join Sami Spalter and her husband, Andrew, for the second installment of their episode together. Tune in as they spill all the details about their wedding planning and big day, including how they honored Sami’s mom throughout the ceremony and their epic honeymoon adventures. From ... Show More
57m 25s
Jun 2024
Sami & Andrew Spalter’s Love Story Part I: When You Know, You Know!
In this special episode of Transform, host Sami Spalter sits down with her “biggest blessing” — her husband, Andrew Spalter, for part one of their love story and transformative journey together.From a detailed play-by-play of how they met to their whirlwind first dates (we’re tal ... Show More
1 h
Nov 2024
Sex Work, Life Purpose, and Lack of Sleep
Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener’s question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat?
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59m 49s
Aug 2024
The Orgasm Gap, Anger Management, and Should We Break Up?
Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how do I ... Show More
1h 13m
Jul 2024
Manopause, How To Flirt, and My BF Steals My Panties
Today, Shaun and John discuss hairstyle insecurities, aging, and the ethics of keeping exes' nudes. They bring on two live caller's and give advice on how to bring more flirty energy into your life, and what to do about a boyfriend's panty kink.
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56m 14s