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Nov 2024
42m 51s

You’re not doing networking wrong

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About this episode

There’s a new era of networking in tech, and it’s not all polished LinkedIn posts, Zoom mixers, or networking events. Today’s episode of Off The VPN discusses the modern rules of tech networking with special guest Meghan Halton, Senior Engineering Manager at Kibeam Learning. From the awkward icebreakers to the pressure of LinkedIn profile management,  Meghan, Jasmine, and Allison break down what’s really worth the hype—and what’s not worth the time.


Whether you’re figuring out how to maximize online and offline events, building genuine connections, or debating what to share on LinkedIn, today’s episode gives us a fresh perspective. So, if you’re wondering what the absolute essentials are, this one’s for you!

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Highlights:

  • LinkedIn: Essential Tool or Necessary Evil? Meghan and the hosts share their love-hate relationship with LinkedIn, from the professional wins to the social media burnout.
  • Virtual Networking: Connection or Just Convenience? The pros and cons of remote-only networking events, plus tips on creating real connections online.
  • Mastering the Art of Conference Mingling: Whether it’s a happy hour or a speed networking game, Jasmine, Allison, and Meghan discuss the secrets to turning conference mixers into genuine networking wins.

Jump into the conversation:
(00:00) Today’s topic: navigating tech networking with Meghan
(03:12) The LinkedIn debate: love it or leave it?
(09:24) Virtual networking events: connection vs. convenience
(15:46) In-person conferences: making real connections in tech
(21:13) Mixer moments: how to handle conference happy hours
(27:48) Imposter syndrome at conferences: advice for newcomers
(32:22) Networking games: icebreakers or cringe-worthy activities?
(37:09) Maintaining professional connections: pro-tips from Meghan

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