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Nov 2024
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Episode 348: How To Stay Sexually Health...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
About this episode

Our sexuality is something that evolves and changes over time. However, traditional sex education does a poor job of preparing us for those changes. In today’s show, we’re going to talk about how to stay sexually healthy for your entire life. We’re going to explore what people at different stages of life need to know, why maintaining sexual health is so important, tips for navigating low sexual desire, and so much more.

I am joined once again by Dr. Evelin Dacker, who is the creator of the STARS framework for sexual communication, which we discussed in depth in the last episode. She is a physician who specializes in sexual wellness, menopause and hormones, and vitality throughout life.

Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include:

  • What are the key things young adults should know about staying sexually healthy?
  • How can we effectively communicate with our partners about sexual difficulties when they arise?
  • What do mid-life and older adults need to know about maintaining a healthy sex life?
  • How do you maintain a healthy sex life when your sexual desire (or your partner’s desire) declines?
  • How do you talk to your doctor about sex?

You can check out Evelin’s website to learn more about the STARS method and follow her on the socials @sexmeddoc.

Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.

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