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Nov 2024
1h 43m

Online Bullying

Kirk Honda
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Dr Kirk talks about online bullying and dealing with negative comments.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Intro
01:56 Who Trolled Amber? 
07:36 Cancellation trauma
24:17 Negative online feedback
47:57 Online mob mentality & balancing feedback

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November 8, 2024

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