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Nov 2024
30m 43s

4th Anniversary Special: Fan Q&A Edition

Coffee and Cleavage
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In this special 4-year anniversary episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary celebrate by diving into fan questions! From figuring out if a girl is interested or just wants to stay friends, to tackling the aftermath of being cheated on and dealing with jealousy, they explore the dynamics of dating and relationships.

Please keep submitting your questions and stories to www.coffeeandcleavage.com

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