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Oct 2024
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"Should I Break Up Over Money Or Stay To...

Shari Rash, Money Podcast for Women, Personal Finance, Relationships & Mental Health
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In this Vault Ask Shannah episode, we dive into a raw and relatable question from listener Nicole, who struggles with money fights that threaten her relationship. After 5 years together and therapy sessions that feel like they’re going nowhere, Nicole and her partner are still sneaking purchases and letting money issues take the driver's seat in their relationship. Sound familiar? If you feel like money is f-ing up your love life, too, you're not alone. Tune in as I share expert advice on how to break the cycle, have honest conversations about money, and keep your relationship strong.

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