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Oct 2024
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Is Everyone a Clone? Social Media’s Infl...

ALLISON WETIG AND CEARA KIRKPATRICK
About this episode

Ep 196: Opinionated AF is a new monthly segment that we added in 2024 where we share our opinions on the internet’s opinions. For added entertainment, we select videos that have gone viral, are hot takes, and / or are a little controversial.

In the catch-up segment (0-25 minutes), Ceara shares about an unsettling routine interruption and planning her high school reunion. Allison shares her realizations about celebrating her 30th birthday in her hometown, the need for a dopamine detox and her excitement preparing for this next era. Both girls got to unexpectedly see the Northern Lights, in very different but equally magical ways.

During the Opinionated AF segment, we discuss videos around the impact of TikTok culture on individuality, dynamics of friendships among influencers, the recent viral wedding drama involving a makeup vendor, and the complexities of our own relationships with money. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, emotional healing from past traumas and how living within our means can provide emotional and financial stability.


VIDEOS FEATURED: 

Topic #1: Everyone Is A Clone

Topic #2: Should influencer couples/friendships share when they break up (and why)?

Topic #3: Wedding Vendor Overstayed Her Welcome

Topic #4: Heal Your Trauma To Make Money


CHAPTERS:

(00:00) Introduction

(08:02) Reflections on Travel and Bed Bug Fears

(12:09) Planning a High School Reunion

(14:04) 30th Birthday Celebrations and Personal Growth

(20:07) Finding Balance in Life's Milestones

(25:13) Experiencing the Northern Lights

(28:56) The Burden of Being the Planner

(29:24) Listener Peaks of the Week

(30:15) Hot Takes on TikTok Culture

(31:03) The Impact of Social Media on Individuality

(34:16) The Influence of Trends Across Different Cities

(38:00) The Obligation of Influencers to Share Personal Changes

(42:40) Wedding Drama: A Makeup Vendor's Misstep

(47:16) Exploring Relationships with Money

(52:08) The Cycle of Financial Stress and Abundance Mindset


MENTIONS:

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