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Oct 2024
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205: Why Don't Churches Talk About Sex, ...

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Tune into this incredible PART TWO episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.

 

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1:20 - Is there a place for me to be a pastor if I had sex before marriage?  

5:25 - Is it okay to separate or leave my spouse because of porn/erotica usage?

12:17 - How to get my spouse to invest more emotionally in our marriage? I’m tired of doing it all

17:18 - Lots of questions about why churches don’t talk about sex in a healthy way but more in a fear mongering/purity culture way. How do you think churches should handle speaking about sex?

33:45 - Why is monogamy the norm when in reality it’s a new concept?

39:15 - How to create mentorship/discipleship opportunities for couples?


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