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Oct 2024
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204: How To Talk About Fantasies, Have E...

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  • Tune into this incredible PART ONE episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.

     

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    10:40 - How to balance marriage, job, kids, work. We have little desire left at the end of the day for each other

    16:27 - Why do I need to have sex if I’m married?

    22:06 - Sex seems like yet another item on the list of things that given to men and not women. What are your thoughts on that?

    24:50 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are not biblical (ie. threesome, etc)?

    30:58 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are biblical but I’m hesitant?



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