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Sep 2024
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SERIES: Phases of the Mom: Becoming Momm...

Uzma Jafri
About this episode

There’s a lot to say about “mothers’ status” in Islam, but sadly, not enough about how to support her to maintain and thrive there. It’s hella lonely and confusing on these pedestals. We aren’t looking for trophies, just Jannah (heaven), but some of us get lost along the way.

Good news! There’s a whole field of study about it! Matrescence, the developmental transition into motherhood, is both spiritual AND practical for Muslims. There’s no other way we know how to do things, but we weren’t always here. It took a long way, through a lot of parenting potholes and pitfalls to get where we are, and we aren’t done yet. Take a walk down memory lane with us and maybe tune in for some familiar experiences and sentiments.

We didn’t mean to start the waterworks this early in the series, but here we are. Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website landing page. Share this episode with a new mama or even better, a mama to be, who can inshaAllah avoid curveballs where we did not.

Links:

  1. What is Matrescence?
  2. Huffpost on matrescence
  3. Neuroscience of matrescence
  4. Read more about matrescence by Dr. Aurelie Athan
  5. Kevlar bulletproof hoodies (because America)
    1. https://wonderhoodie.com/collections/wonder-hoodie-bulletproof-clothing
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