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Aug 2024
21m 47s

Ego Is Not Your Amigo

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Hi, guys! Welcome to this week’s episode of Chiquis and Chill. Today, we’re talking all about the ego and why I think it can create challenges in relationships. Tune in to hear some personal anecdotes — including what triggers me.

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