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Jul 2024
54m 51s

Intimacy Inside and Outside the Bedroom

Angelika Ciullo, Michael Ciullo
About this episode

Intimacy is not just about sex. It extends beyond physical connection to emotional, spiritual, and intellectual connections. It involves a deep sense of understanding, trust, and affection that allows partners to share their innermost selves without fear of judgment.

True intimacy requires communication, vulnerability, openness, and a safe space where both partners feel valued and cherished. This connection is essential for the health and longevity of any relationship, as it builds a foundation of mutual respect and love that can weather the inevitable challenges and changes that life brings. In essence, intimacy is the glue that holds relationships together, enriching the shared experience and deepening the connection between partners.

In this episode, Ang and Mike discuss intimacy in a marriage relationship. They explore what intimacy truly means, why it's crucial, and how to cultivate it inside and outside the bedroom.


Tune in!


Key Highlights from the Episode:

[00:01] Introduction and what’s in for you in today’s show

[04:58] Why Mike was a bit reserved about today’s topic

[08:04] What intimacy is and what it’s not in a relationship

[12:37] Why intimacy is important in a relationship

[16:43] How to build intimacy in and outside the bedroom

[20:46] Steps on how to handle loss of attraction to your partner

[25:19] Setting boundaries on changing to stay attractive to your partner

[32:08] How to fix lack of intimacy and rekindle the flame

[41:03] How to engage and get your partner in the mood

[43:57] Scheduled intimacy and when it works

[46:42] How and who should initiate sexual intimacy

[48:53] What happens when one partner is more sexual than the other

[52:27] Wrap up and end of the show


Notable Quotes

● Being intimate spiritually and emotionally can help you be more connected when you are physically intimate. - [10:02]

● If you have intimacy in the bedroom, your relationship is not going to last; you cannot be intimate in one category. - [17:10]

● Women's sexual response is different from men's; men have physical and visual stimulation, but for women, it requires psychological and emotional stimulation. - [34:22]

● It’s easier for a woman to initiate sexual intimacy than it is for a man. - [47:10]


Let’s Connect!

Angelika & Mike Ciullo:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelikaciullo/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/angandmikepodcast/

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