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Jul 2024
44m 52s

Dear Banya: A Super… Food!

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Becca and Tanya are ready to share their (non-expert, non-professional) advice for Scrubbers!

Tanya takes us step by step how to lure a guy into your DMs, we try to help someone who’s “dropping the handkerchief” at work and it’s not getting picked up, and what to do when your friend is having an affair!
 
Plus, we play another shocking game of “Most Likely To”!

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