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Jul 2024
38m 16s

How To Tell If They’re Feeling The Spark

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

On today’s show, everyone’s looking for clarity in the sexual unknown, starting with: how can I tell if they’re into me? Whether it’s an office crush and you’re trying to figure out if they like you back, or you’re about to go on a date and worried you’ll be friend-zoned, I give you tips to put your best foot forward. How about if it’s a new sexual act, and you don’t know how you feel about it — or if you should even try it? I offer ways to figure out what YOU want…and not just what your lover wants. Finally, sexual evolutions in long-term relationships: what to do when you’re filled with old resentment? Is there a new conversation you could have with your partner? How about when you want to open up…but your nesting partner is scared of you having new lovers? We’re venturing into uncharted sex territory today, but don’t worry—we all come out on the other side, with fresh ways forward.


In this episode you’ll learn: 

  • Steps to getting back into dating
  • How to talk to your partner about their kinks
  • What to do when you want your relationship to be open, but your partner doesn't
  • How to talk to your kids about Sex and Sexual Wellness


Show Notes:


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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