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Jul 2024
26m 12s

396: Packing Up and Moving On

TONYA LEIGH
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Emotional Residency: Packing Up Your Life for Joyful Reinvention

Assessing what parts of our lives we are ready to leave behind and what we want to bring along as we move forward is a crucial aspect of personal growth and transformation. In a podcast episode, Tonya Leigh discusses the process of packing up her belongings as she prepares to move to a new house. This physical act of packing serves as a metaphor for the emotional and mental process of evaluating what serves us and what no longer aligns with our current goals and values.

She emphasizes the importance of being intentional about what we choose to bring along on our journey. This includes not only physical items but also emotional baggage, old beliefs, and outdated thought patterns. By taking the time to assess these aspects of our lives, we can make conscious decisions about what to let go of and what to hold onto as we move forward.

Join Tanya as she shares her own emotional journey of packing up her current home and moving into a new chapter.

Talking Points:

00:30 - Introduction to Packing Up and Moving On

05:30 - Emotional Baggage and Letting Go

10:33 - Sunken Cost Fallacy and Letting Go

15:19 - Packing Up for the Future

18:41 - Moving into a New Chapter

22:47 - Joyful Reinvention through Packing Up and Moving On

Quotes:

"This has been about me deciding what parts of myself I'm ready to leave behind, what things I'm ready to let go of, and equally, what I'm ready to move towards."

"I had divorce papers, I had emails, I had things that when I read them, I was like, oh my goodness, like, who was I and who was my ex because we both had grown up."

"Does this spark joy? Does this belong in my future? Does this excite me? Does this align with my values? Does it represent who I am today?"

"Your brain doesn't know what it's like to walk through the world feeling like you are deserving."

"I believe that packing up and moving on, whether it's metaphorically or it's reality, is one of the most powerful tools for joyful reinvention."

"But then I discovered a simple shift. Or three, that changed everything."

 

Useful Resources:

FREE Training: https://schoolofselfimage.com/after

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Connect with Self-Image Coach, Tonya Leigh:

Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetonyaleigh

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TonyaLeighOfficial

 

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