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Jul 2024
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Are Your Expectations Pushing Your Teen ...

MARK GREGSTON
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Our teens are wrestling with the pressures of their world. They don't need more “you should do this” lectures — they need your listening ears and sometimes, just your silent support. In today's episode, Mark talks about the importance of understanding the changing dynamics in your child's life and the critical need for parents to offer support and compassion rather than judgment and criticism. He emphasizes how maintaining a nonjudgmental and nurturing relationship can help teens navigate these tumultuous years. Tune in now!

For more on helping your child through the changes of the teen years, check out Mark's book, "What's Happening to My Teen?" Order your copy at bit.ly/whats-happening-teen

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org



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