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Jul 2024
26m 43s

I Need Help with Dating Decisions!

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com
About this episode

Are you struggling with decisions in your dating life?

Today on the podcast, I talk with Carolina, and help her navigate some questions she has regarding dating and dating relationships.

She specifically wants to know how you make decisions based on your faith and what God wants for your dating life, versus making decisions based on your emotions and how you feel… and is there a difference between those two things?

Is it anxiety, or is it God?

Is it infatuation, or the Holy Spirit?

We process through all of this and dig a little deeper today on the Podcast!! if you are making decisions in your dating life, don’t miss this episode!



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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sexand RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on FacebookInstagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today!

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