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Jul 2024
19m 21s

Instilling Competence, Compassion and Se...

MARK GREGSTON
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What do you REALLY want for your kids? It’s about more than clean rooms and not driving fast. As parents, we should also be focused on helping them develop a good, godly character. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into the essential character qualities parents should aim to instill in their teenagers. From fostering competence and discernment to cultivating compassion, caring and self-control, discover practical strategies to help your teen develop into a well-rounded adult. Listen in!

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