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Aug 2024
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How Men Fall In Love - A Step by Step Gu...

Violet Benson
About this episode

Ever wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it has to do with how much you PISS HIM OFF.


Well... kinda.


On today's episode we cover:

  • The Love Hormones: Women have oxytocin, the love hormone released during sex and cuddling. Men? They have vasopressin, their “monogamy hormone,” which kicks in when you stress him out!
  • Stress Him Out: Discover why a little stress is good for making your man fall for you.
  • Triggering Love: Learn about the stress hormones in men and how to activate them to your advantage.
  • Stages of Love: Uncover the three stages of how a man falls in love.
  • When Men Pull Away: Find out the real reason men disappear when things are going so well and what you can do about it.
  • Love Psychology: Dive into the psychology of love with 8 actionable tips to win his heart.


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Tune in and get the scoop on how to master the art of love – scientifically and cheekily! 💘🧬

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