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Jun 2024
43m 2s

7 Biggest Turnoffs for Men

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

Original podcast aired May 7th, 2023: In this podcast episode, hosts Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski explore the 7 biggest turnoffs for men. They address the problem that many women believe turnoffs have to do with physical attributes. The reality is that when a man is in the market for a serious relationship and looking for a high-value partner, turnoffs become emotional.

Through their personal experiences and expert insights, Adam and Gary explore the turnoffs that both men and women can relate to. They start with the idea of trying to control the uncontrollable and how it can be a major turnoff for men when women talk about the future or lean into their masculine side. They also touch on the idea of unearned affection and how it can be off-putting when a woman gives too much before a man has done anything to earn it.

Other turnoffs they discuss include a lack of interest, perceived promiscuity, the double O effect (obvious and ordinary), a negative attitude toward love, and being a doormat without clear boundaries. They also explore the idea of playing games in dating and how it can come off as immature rather than strategic.

Throughout the episode, Adam and Gary offer expert advice on how to avoid these turnoffs and cultivate healthy, thriving relationships. So, if you're curious about what makes men tick and how to create a lasting connection, this episode is a must-listen.

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