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Jun 2024
11m 28s

Treat Children Like Guests (Not As Suspe...

Jesse McCarthy
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"A few days ago during pickup at our little schoolhouse, a mom shows up to get her daughter, who is 3 yrs old. ..."

A story about how we treat children -- and how we might change things around for the benefit of us all

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