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Jun 2024
58m 5s

Should We Breakup or Makeup?

Alix Earle
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(VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON SPOTIFY AND YOUTUBE) This week, Alix sits down with her sister, Ashtin, to unpack relationship trauma. Ashtin discusses being insecure and leaning on her ex-boyfriend, who Alix would butt heads with. This relationship put a dent in their sisterhood that took years to rebuild. Ashtin explains how good of a sister Alix was during the break-up and how it helped her regain her confidence.


 

The two also discuss friendship red flags and what actions would cause them to break up with a friend. Then, Alix sits down for another WWAD segment.


 

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