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Jun 2024
1h 19m

Reaching Your Full Orgasmic Potential wi...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Shownotes

  • Why breasts are so important in sexuality

  • What a breast massage actually is and how to give yourself one

  • Bibi’s journey from Wall Street to Sex Witch

  • The importance of finding your spiritual center

  • How to appreciate the moments of stillness in sex and in life

  • What a peak climax is and why we perceive intensity as pleasure

  • How to redirect your energy to change how you experience life

  • Why working with the breasts facilitates deeper sexual energy

  • The power of breast work to heal heartbreak, grief and sadness

  • Bibi guides listeners through a powerful breast massage practice

 

Bio

Bibi is VITA™ certified Sex, Love and Relationship coach, certified Erotic Blueprint coach, holistic sexuality international speaker and energetic lovemaking guide. 

She has presented her trailblazing, disruptive approach to sexuality throughout the world, having made appearances at events like Mindvalley Summit A-Fest, Summit LA, YPO and EO forums, and been featured in publications like Vogue, Elle Magazine, Marie Claire and Conde Nast.

Her heart-opening and taboo-crushing courses create powerful spaces for conversation and plant seeds for exploration of conscious sexuality. Through her offerings of online courses, group workshops, speaking engagements, lectures and one-on-one work, in both English and Spanish, she has reached over 150,000 people. 

Bibi serves clients from around the world, both single individuals and loving couples, in their journeys to transformation.

 

Timestamp

00:01:21 - Guest introduction

00:02:28 - Bibi manifested her appearance on This Tantric Life using Sex Magic

00:03:55 - Why breasts are the most undervalued gateway to female sexuality

00:04:45 - How Bibi went from communist Poland to Wallstreet to Sex Witch

00:09:06 - Bibi’s experience with reaching her darkest, lowest point

00:11:15 - Bibi’s first experience of sexual awakening

00:14:34 - Sign up for Layla’s email list at LaylaMartin.com

00:16:40 - The energetic orgasm is a universal human ability

00:18:25 - How one of Layla’s clients went from skeptical to sexual awakening

00:21:43 - Once you find yourself, even simple moments can be delightful

00:23:20 - What it means to appreciate the values of sex

00:25:30 - The power of welcoming an orgasm instead of chasing it

00:26:50 - Your invitation into VITA™ Sacred Sexuality 

00:32:47 - Pleasure is optional but it’s also a choice

00:33:28 - Layla demonstrates how pleasure happens internally

00:36:50 - Bibi talks about having full body orgasms live onstage

00:37:59 - Layla and Bibi drink MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:40:25 - The Goddess wants you to have both your desires and grit

00:42:24 - Bibi tries MOOD™ Sex Magic

00:44:29 - Why breasts are so important in sexuality

00:48:47 - Bibi wants to make “boob love” more common than boob jobs

00:52:22 - How unexpressed grief and sadness actually leads to performing during sex

00:57:25 - Bibi leads listeners through a guided breast massage practice

01:04:45 - How breast massage can change your relationship to your body and yourself

01:06:45 - The art of having a breast orgasm

01:08:47 - Creating a blended pleasure experience with your breasts

01:09:20 - Bibi’s experience with the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

01:14:08 - The level of responsibility a sacred sexuality teacher holds

01:18:16 - Conclusion

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