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Jun 2024
49m 46s

What If I Break Up With My Dad?

Esther Perel Global Media
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Esther takes a question from a young woman struggling with her relationship with her father. A recent divorce and the slow reveal of an affair on the part of her father has ruptured the family- and leaves her questioning whether or not her father should continue to have a role in her life. Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute interventional phone ca ... Show More
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