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May 2024
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Ex-Adult Star Reveals What NO ONE Tells ...

Adam Lane Smith & Sarah Dawn Moore
About this episode

🎙️ Welcome to the 30th episode of "I Wish You Knew" with the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Candice Horbacz. This week, we delve into the fascinating journey of Candice, who transitioned from the adult industry to motherhood and a monogamous marriage, bringing you profound insights into personal growth and resilience.

 

Candice, Adam, and Andrey explore the challenges of overcoming public scrutiny and criticism while staying true to oneself. They discuss the impact of online negativity, the complexities of modern relationships, and the importance of rehumanizing individuals beyond their pasts. 

 

Whether you're curious about the behind-the-scenes of the adult industry, seeking to understand the power of personal evolution, or looking for strategies to navigate public judgment, this episode offers a powerful and thought-provoking discussion with three unique perspectives!



✨Major Takeaways from This Episode:

 

👉 Candice’s journey from the adult industry to embracing motherhood and a monogamous marriage.

👉 The importance of rehumanizing individuals and seeing beyond their pasts.

👉 Strategies for handling online negativity and focusing on personal growth.

👉 The evolving nature of sexual relationships and the impact of having children on intimacy.

👉 The power of biofeedback training in transforming personal relationships.

👉 The societal pressures and hypocrisy faced by those trying to redefine their identities.



Listen in as we discuss the complexities of personal growth, resilience, and navigating life after being part of the adult industry. 🎧



If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode: Are You Unknowingly Hurting Your Marriage?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2rMCjl5Z5k&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast 

 

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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 



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Apple:         https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chatting-with-candice/id1519076009 

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Follow Adam Lane Smith:

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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg    

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Follow Andrey Korikov:  

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Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov 

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The next episode drops Thursday :)

See you there. 

 

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