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May 2024
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Episode 295: Common Myths About Anal Sex...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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Anal sex is something humans have been practicing for thousands of years. However, is has long been shrouded in taboos, which has led to the proliferation of a lot of myths and misconceptions. In today’s show, we’ll be discussing common things people get wrong about anal sex. Some of the topics we’ll explore include the myth of anal sex as “gay s ... Show More
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