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May 2024
55m 29s

Patric Gagne: Sociopaths, compulsive beh...

Fearne Cotton
About this episode

Sociopathy should be understood as a spectrum disorder. It’s a disorder that affects roughly 5% of the population – similar to the number of people who have depression or anxiety. Patric Gagne is a sociopath.

 

In this chat with Fearne, Patric explains the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath. Sociopaths have access to inherent emotions like sadness and happiness, but struggle with learned social emotions like remorse, guilt, empathy, and love. There’s also a huge feeling of apathy for Patric, which in the past led her to anti-social behaviours like stealing cars and breaking into houses.

 

Fearne also points out the benefits of not caring what others think of you; while she people pleases a lot, she can see the freedom in having a lack of a filter. They chat about how to function in a relationship when you have to communicate any kind of mental disorder or illness too.

 

Patric’s memoir, Sociopath, is this month’s Happy Place Book Club read. Come and be part of the Book Club discussions on Instagram @happyplacebookclub.

 

Sociopath is out now.

 

Listen to Book Club Meets: Jo Cheetham

 

Listen to Book Club Meets: Jennie Godfrey



Thanks to Bluebird (an imprint of Pan Macmillan) for the Sociopath audiobook extract.


 


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