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May 2024
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E747 Ask Nick - Dating My Boyfriend’s Mo...

Nick Viall
About this episode

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We start off by keeping  the wedding mood going, and play a game of ‘I do, or I object’. Then we get to our callers… 

Our first caller is recently single and is struggling to get over her ex’s comments about her body. She knows her ex was in the wrong, but it's easier said than done to forget without closure. Our second caller feels like she’s in a love triangle with her boyfriend’s mom. After a complicated work situation and weird comments from her boyfriend’s mom… it's clear that she is unwanted. Our final caller is struggling from a past relationship, where he was cheated on. He has a new found love interest, so how should he go about being vulnerable without pushing himself away. 

“How do you feel about yourself, you’ve got to remember that… That’s really all that matters.”

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