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May 2024

10m 50s

Because It’s Who We Want to Be

FOCUS ON THE FAMILY

About this episode

It's important to never take your spouse for granted. A great way to do that is to remember how you and your mate fell in love. John, and the Smalley's share why remembering your love story can help your marriage today. Then, Bill and Pam Farrel join Jim Daly to discuss how it's good to take advantage of simple opportunities for romance.

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