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May 2024
1h 26m

Ep 70: How to date if you desire deep pa...

Meg and Jacob O'Neill
About this episode

What are your thoughts on dating apps and on dating?

In this episode, Meg and Jacob dives in and discusses what to do when you meet someone in a dating app and how to cultivate a relationship when dating.

They share valuable insights from their own dating experiences and reminisce the first few months in their relationship.

They also riff off on:

  • Holding your fucking standard and only being available for what you truly deeply desire in a relationship
  • Bringing your desires vulnerably to the motherfucking table early on so you can see if a potential partner is able to meet you in the way you want to be met 
  • Practicing the art of discernment to taste when something is off and see if a partner's words and actions integrate
  • Trusting the feeling, not necessarily the form, and only pursuing relationships that honor what you deeply desire
  • Getting really clear on who you are and what you want before entering the dating scene
  • Men becoming the man they know they are here to be and developing vision and integrity for their lives so they can provide stability for a potential partner
  • Meg's hand written card and manifestation entries from a decade ago
  • Jacob reminiscing about Meg's very 'Maiden' crystal and moon bathing days

And many more...

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The Desire Date: A sexy date night experience for couples ready to re-ignite passion & deepen intimacy. ---> https://bit.ly/49r28Zt

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