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May 2024
21m 19s

Ep. 238 - Progress over pessimism in you...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

Today, we're diving into a powerful concept: 'what you focus on grows.' It's a game-changer, especially after a breakup. Instead of getting stuck on what's broken, let's pivot towards what's working and celebrate our progress. We'll tackle how to redirect our focus for a smoother journey towards our goals. Let's choose progress over pessimism, celebration over stagnation. Tune in now for practical tips and inspiring insights. It's time to seize the day and create the life you deserve, not just the one you think you can get.

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