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Apr 2024
39m 41s

What if I have no clue who I am?

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
Have you ever been told to reconnect with who you were, but really have no clue who that is? Some people started their life in a toxic or dysfunctional environment and have no healthy self to reconnect with. What do you do then?  There are steps to defining or redefining yourself. I talk about them in this episode.  
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