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Apr 2024
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42: The Myths and Truths of Tantra and I...

Anne Bland
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In this episode, Anne Bland shares her take on myths and truths about Tantra and intimate relationships. Myth number 1: Tantra Is Just About Sex. Myth number 2: Great Relationships Don't Require Effort. Myth number 3: Intimacy, Pleasure, and Sex are a Taboo. The truths according to Anne behind these myths are Truth number 1: Tantra as a Path to Self-Discovery and Connection. Truth number 2: The Value of Work and Play in Relationships. Truth number 3: Embracing Pleasure as Natural and Healthy. As always, Anne invites the listeners to feel into what their truths are and welcomes listeners to share the myths and stories with her by email or on Instagram messaging.


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