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Apr 2024
26m 40s

8 Steps for Overcoming Fear of Judgment ...

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About this episode

How have your goals changed since January? 

What's your next step for improvement in the coming 90 days?

This episode isn't just a conversation; it's an invitation to dive deep into your thoughts, feelings, and aspirations. Jay discusses the tough questions about identity, authenticity, and personal growth, guiding you through a process of self-discovery and transformation. You'll find insights and strategies to help you understand who you truly are and how to align your life with your deepest values. Whether you're looking to break free from the fear of judgment, understand your true desires, or simply get a clearer picture of where you're headed, this is the ultimate guide to your first 90-day check in.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to overcome the fear of judgment

How to be your true self

How to handle external pressure

If you're ready to challenge the status quo and redefine your sense of self, let's uncover the power of self-reflection and the beauty of becoming who you truly are. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:03 Why Live Your Years in Quarters

03:11 The Hardest Challenge Today

05:12 #1: What Is the Most Difficult Judgment You’re Afraid Of?

07:00 #2: Who Would You Be If You Didn’t Worry What People Would Think About You?

07:57 #3: What Would You Do If You Didn’t Worry About What People Think Of You?

13:47 What Did You Use to Value You Don’t Value Anymore?

16:58 Attachment and Aversion Are Two Sides of the Same Coin

21:07 3 Questions You Need to Ask Yourself

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