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Apr 2024
1h 42m

Andrew Huberman: Optimizer of Love

Meghan Daum & Sarah Haider
About this episode

On this very long episode, the girls/women discuss the recent New York Magazine piece on Andrew Huberman’s allegedly womanizing ways.  Meghan defends the magazine fact-checking process, but Sarah finds the whole thing disgusting. They both agree that attempting to optimize your poops is psychotic, unless of course it is done in the name of Science. 

They then move on to age gaps in dating, and whether Sarah is trash for dressing for the Male Gaze. 

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New York Magazine: Andrew Huberman’s Mechanisms of Control

The Cut: The Case for Marrying an Older Man 



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