logo
episode-header-image
Mar 2024
50m 5s

Why, How, and Who to Marry: A Conversati...

Marshall Poe
About this episode
University of Virginia sociologist Brad Wilcox *01 delves into some of the popular wisdom surrounding marriage and tells us what the data has to say: is it better to marry young or wait? To move in with your partner before or after marriage? Does marriage hurt your career prospects or your ability to set aside time for your own happiness? What groups in Amer ... Show More
Up next
Nov 20
Can Feminism be African?: A Conversation with Minna Salami
Transcript of the interview Minna Salami is a writer, social critic, and thought leader on feminism, knowledge production, and the aesthetics and structures of power. She formerly served as Programme Chair and Senior Fellow at THE NEW INSTITUTE, where she led the Black Feminism ... Show More
34m 1s
Nov 20
160* Hannah Arendt's Refugee Politics (JP)
John's “Arendt's Refugee Politics” came out in Public Books in early November. He made the case that his favorite political philosopher, Hannah Arendt is an opponent both of identity politics and also of a cosmpolitan universalism that is blind to all the differences (of race, ge ... Show More
21m 4s
Nov 18
On Democracy and Bullshit with Hélène Landemore
Today I’m speaking with Hélène Landemore, Professor of Political Science at Yale University, about Democracy and Bullshit, with a special focus on her 2020 book, Open Democracy: Reinventing Popular Rule for the Twenty-First Century (Princeton University Press, 2020). Bullshit is ... Show More
1h 6m
Recommended Episodes
Sep 2023
What’s So Great About Marriage?
Since the 1970s, the General Social Survey has asked thousands of Americans the same question: “Taken all together, how would you say things are these days—would you say that you are very happy, pretty happy, or not too happy?” In the past few decades, our well-being seemed to ta ... Show More
51m 53s
Jun 2025
Why a 3 – 5 Year Plan Matters
When was the last time you and your spouse discussed where you want to be in 3 - 5 years? Erin Smalley addresses how a lot of couples are struggling with a sense of vision today. Also, Jim Daly speaks to Sean and Lanette Reed about how they've learned to set goals in their marria ... Show More
11m 21s
Jun 2025
The Influence of Your Spouse’s Birth Order
The old adage "opposites attract," is very common for a lot of couples. Jim Daly and Dr. Kevin Leman explain how marrying someone who's of a different birth order from you can be a good thing. Plus, Greg and Erin Smalley open up to John Fuller about how they've seen birth order i ... Show More
12m 13s
Aug 2024
Doing Marriage God’s Way, Not Yours
Marriage is designed by God to help you become a better person. Matt and Lisa Jacobson share with Jim Daly about how doing marriage God's way requires maturity. You'll also hear John and the Smalley's discuss why it matters for you keep your focus on God as a couple.   Find us on ... Show More
10m 44s
Sep 2015
Graduate, Work, Marry, Procreate
<p>How essential is marriage for aspiring middle-class families? On The Gist, economist and Brookings fellow Isabel Sawhill explains her often-cited "success sequence" and declining marriage rates in the developed world. She's the author of Generation Unbound. For the Spiel, why ... Show More
26m 4s
Mar 2025
The Sunday Read: ‘How I Learned That the Problem in My Marriage Was Me’
<p>One thing I’ve learned from being married to my wife, Jess, who is a couples therapist, is how vast the distance is between the masks people show to the world and the messy realities that live behind them. Every couple knows its own drama, but we still fall prey to the illusio ... Show More
43m 20s
Apr 2025
Is Who You Marry The Biggest Decision You'll Ever Make? ft. Sahil Bloom
<p>Sahil Bloom is an inspirational writer, content creator and author who captivates millions of people every week through his popular newsletter the ‘Curiosity Chronicle’. Sahil and I discuss what relationship wealth looks like, having friends for different functions, if the per ... Show More
44m 36s
Apr 2024
2325: Why Marriages Fail & What to Do About It With Dr. John Delony
The most challenging calls he has received. (1:24) The shift in divorce statistics. (6:29) Why men need work, family, and a higher purpose. (9:59) You can’t do anything hard based on feel. (15:43) The new rules for a successful marriage. (17:55) The power in celebrating wins and ... Show More
1h 23m
May 2024
Are falling marriage rates causing happiness to fall in the US?
It’s long been known that marriage is associated with happiness in survey data. But are falling marriage rates in the US dragging down the mood of the whole nation? We investigate the statistical relationships with Professor Sam Peltzman from the University of Chicago, and Profes ... Show More
9m 49s
Aug 2024
What Makes a Great Marriage
What makes a great marriage, or even a good marriage? Today we're talking to Frances Mayes, bestselling author of the mega-hit novel Under the Tuscan Sun which has been a touchpoint for women going through any kind of life change or reinvention for nearly 30 years. Now Frances ha ... Show More
38m 31s